January 6, 2017 – A Canadian Sister’s Perspective

I feel a bit like the younger sister who has gone to a party with an older sister and suddenly realized that things have gotten out of control.

When we decided to go to the party we knew that it might get a bit crazy. We were nervous but optimistic that everything would turn out all right. You hear things but never really know how these things are going to go down.

So now the party is in full swing and my sister is getting scared. There’s a guy my sister met who keeps telling her what to do and when she doesn’t do it he gets angry at her. She’s looking around at me and her friends hoping that somebody is going to step in and help.

The problem is that there really isn’t much we can do. We can make suggestions and give advice. We can be sympathetic and comforting. We can tell the guy to stop, behave himself and act like a gentleman.

Ultimately though, my sister has to be the one to stand up and make herself heard and tell this guy that he can’t treat her that way. It’s the only way to make it stop.

I love my sister and our relationship has always been close.   If I could, I would step in and make the guy go away.

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3 thoughts on “January 6, 2017 – A Canadian Sister’s Perspective

  1. PositivelyUnbroken February 6, 2017 / 10:00 pm

    Please make him go away. It’s been less than three weeks, and it’s just not funny.

  2. Life of Janine February 7, 2017 / 12:00 pm

    Keep calm little sister… big sister (and brother!) will get through this. Maybe little sister needs to spend some time watching what’s hiding behind her own bedroom door? 😉 Something may be lurking there, too.

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